Wedding at Cast Iron Studios
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Advice for planning a wedding in a short time period
- Set your budget at the beginning. It allows you to prioritize what’s most important and helps with decision making.
- Be willing to make quick decisions. It helps if you and your groom already have a clear idea of what you want. Andre and I talked about our wedding before we got engaged, but didn’t book anything or make anything official until after our engagement. I actually booked our venue and photographer the night we got engaged. We were able to make quick decisions because we had spent time researching prior to our engagement.
- Be flexible. If something isn’t working out exactly as you thought, be willing to make changes. We started with one idea for the backdrop of our ceremony. After going to the space a few times, we realized that it would take away from the space rather than enhance it. So we changed our minds and it turned out so much better than we originally envisioned.
- Ask for help. My dear friend Christina is creative, artistic, and knows me well. We asked her to help us from day one. We would talk to her about ideas and she found ways to implement them. I also trust her immensely, so after spending hours talking about we wanted, it was easy to let her just go for it. She did all the decor for our wedding/reception and it was absolutely perfect!
- Make sure the wedding reflects you and your groom. Only you and your groom can decide what is important to you about your wedding day. Andre and I knew we wanted our wedding to be a celebration of our love, but also about the people that have invested in our lives. That’s why we kept our wedding small. We wanted it to be a fabulous dinner party in a great setting with delicious food. We were so excited to find Cast Iron Studios, who happens to be catered by one of my favorite restaurants – Purple Cafe & Wine Bar. We got a lot of comments about how great the food was, which is exactly what we had hoped for. A lot of people may/will offer opinions, but focus on making the day about what is important to you and your groom. And when all is said and done, remember what is most important, marrying the love of your life.
- Be present. I had been told by so many brides that the wedding day goes by so fast and at the end of the day feels like a blur. So I tried to be present every moment and really take in everything. It does indeed go by so fast and I wish that I could have slowed everything down. But at the end of the day, it was everything we wanted and more. And we’ve been able to relive the experience by looking at our photos and hearing about the night from our friends and family.
(Kristen also set-up a photobooth, which was a fun way to say hello to each of our guests. You can see photos here.)
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