Like many women, I consider my besties to be some of the most important people in my life. My maid of honor and bridesmaids were right by my side while I was planning my wedding, from start to finish.
Our wedding party was relatively small and I only had a couple of bridesmaids, so I didn’t send out the official “Will you be my bridesmaid” cards or bridesmaid proposal boxes. I gave them each a small gift which they appreciated, but it didn’t fully capture how grateful I was for their help and friendship. If I had it to do all over again, I would’ve gone all out.
If you’re putting together proposal gift boxes for your girls, the girls here at L&L would be thrilled to help you out! We’ll begin by laying out a quick overview of what it’s all about. Then we’ll share some perfect bridesmaid proposal cards to help you pop the question.
What Is a Bridesmaid Proposal?
When he asked you to be his wife, he proposed with a ring. When you ask your crew to be your bridesmaids, you propose with a card and a thoughtful gift to show them just how much their involvement means to you.
You should send bridesmaid proposal cards ASAP. Should they accept, being a bridesmaid means helping with pre-wedding events like the engagement party, bridal shower, bachelorette party, and more.
You want to give them as much time as possible to prepare. The bridal party will need to arrange their schedules, make travel plans if you’re having a destination wedding and/or bachelorette party, help plan out the festivities, and get fitted for dresses. That’s a lot to accomplish, and they’ll need plenty of time to get it all done.
Planning and organizing without a time crunch means much less stress and much more party time for everyone!
Our Fav Will You be my Bridesmaid Cards
1. Bouquet Bridesmaid Proposal CArd
by Haley Warner
So feminine! These beautiful invitations are formal enough to let her know you’re serious but not at all stuffy. They’re entirely customizable inside and out, and you can even include photos. Maybe some snapshots of the two of you from past adventures. If it’s not bribery material, that is.
The cards are available in your choice of four color themes and come with envelopes.
Dimensions: 5 x 7 inches
Printing: Standard
Card Type: Folded
2. Bride Tribe Bridesmaid Proposal Card
We love the font and minimalist design of this bridesmaid proposal card. It features a fully customizable backside and interior options if you need to include more detail or add a personalized sentiment.
This card comes with envelopes and is available in four color themes.
Dimensions: 5 x 7 inches
Printing: Standard
Card Type: Folded
3. So Obvious Bridesmaid Proposal Card
The sassy attitude of these cards will make your girls smile. Partially because they get it, and partially because they’d expect nothing less from you. And the dots are so cute!
Be sure to scroll through each color – we guarantee you’ll love every single one. This card comes in five color themes, envelopes included.
Dimensions: 7 x 5 inches
Printing: Standard
Card Type: Foldable
4. Funny Bridesmaid Proposal Card
Flattery will get you everywhere. Hopefully, in this case, it will help you secure some bridesmaids! These cute cards feature a cheeky message on the outside, followed by a sweet bridesmaid proposal on the inside.
Comes with envelopes in a ton of colors. Have a look. You’ll see what we mean.
Dimensions: 4.25 x 5.5 inches
Printing: Standard
Card Type: Folding
5. Cute Bridesmaid Proposal Checklist Card
Yeah, this one made us laugh out loud – big time. Because who doesn’t like all of those things? Note that the most important question is listed first.
Comes with standard kraft envelopes.
Dimensions: 4.25 x 5.5 inches
Printing: Standard
Card Type: Folding
6. Classic Bridesmaid Proposal Card
The pretty geometrical design of this card gives it a modern look and compliments the contrasting fonts perfectly. You can include a customized message and photos inside if you like to make it really personal.
This card comes in five color themes, and envelopes are included.
Dimensions: 5 x 7 inches
Printing: Standard
Card Type: Folding#
7. Scratch-off Bridesmaid Proposal Card
If you’re looking for a fun bridesmaid proposal, this one is a neat option! The title underneath the scratch-off heart is also customizable, so you can send them out to the whole wedding party.
It comes with envelopes available in a wide variety of colors.
Dimensions: 4.25 x 5.5 inches
Printing: Standard
Card Type: Folding
8. Candid Bridesmaid Proposal Card
A genius bridesmaid card if you just want to be upfront about your needs. Indeed, we all need someone that can handle our stuff. Doubly so if you’re a new bride!
Comes with envelopes in your choice of color.
Dimensions: 4.25 x 5.5 inches
Printing: Standard
Card Type: Folding
9. Hello, Fabulous! Bridesmaid Proposal Card
by Jennifer Lew
This card struck a chord with us. It says, “Hello fabulous, will you be my bridesmaid?” but it’s really saying, “Haaay girl, get those lashes ready, ’cause we goin’ OUT!” You can personalize it inside and out with a message or photos.
Envelopes are included, and it comes in six color themes.
Dimensions: 7 x 5 inches
Printing: Standard
Card Type: Folding
10. Best Day Ever Bridesmaid Proposal Card
Indeed, life is much more fun with your ladies by your side! To make your best day even better, let your future bridesmaids know you need their moxy with this cute bridal party proposal card.
Comes complete with envelopes and in four color themes.
Dimensions: 7 x 5 inches
Printing: Standard
Card Type: Folding
11. All for One and One for All Bridesmaid Proposal Card
Short, sweet, and accurate. If you’ve got ride-or-die friends (and we sincerely hope you do), this cool chalkboard proposal says it all. He’s marrying you, but your friends have to come with the package. If he wants you to stay sane, anyway.
Comes with standard white envelopes.
Dimensions: 5 x 7 inches
Printing: Standard or HD
Card Type: Flat
12. Bridesmaids Movie Invite Proposal Card
If you’ve never seen “Bridesmaids,” stop what you’re doing and watch it now! Well, wait until you’re done reading this, then watch it.
Whether you’re getting married or not, it’s a classic. May all your bridesmaids be as hilarious as Kristin Wiig. Comes with standard white envelopes.
Dimensions: 5 x 7 inches
Printing: Standard
Card Type: Folding
13. Sweet and Salty Bridesmaid Cards
by PetalPaperCo
Who do you call when you’re annoyed with the world? The girls you’re sending these cards to, of course. This card’s cutesy flourish design uniquely drives the point home, making it just perfect for your sarcastic sistas. Comes with a diverse choice of envelope colors.
Dimensions: 4.25 x 5.5 inches
Printing: Standard
Card Type: Folding
What’s Included in a Bridesmaid Proposal?
What’s included in your bridesmaid proposals depends entirely upon your budget and time constraints. For some, simple written invitations and gifts they can use on your wedding day (jewelry, hair accessories, etc.) are just fine.
Other brides prefer to send comprehensive proposal gift boxes along with an official “Will you be my bridesmaid” card. These boxes can include things like:
A bottle of wine. Or airplane bottles of fancy booze, wine tumblers, etc.
Items to pamper them. Things like bath bombs, candles, or mani/pedi kits are always welcome gifts.
Practical things they can use on your wedding day (or the day after!). A mini “emergency” kit is always fun! Include things like ibuprofen, Tide pens, emergency hair ties and bobby pins, hangover relief gag gifts, etc.
Looking for more great ideas? Stay tuned! A comprehensive list of perfect bridesmaid proposal gifts is coming soon!
Gifts to Leave Out of Bridesmaid Proposal Boxes
Too much swag with “bridesmaid” all over it. Keep in mind everyone loves to receive gifts they can use well after the wedding is over, so if you include things like mini bathrobes or jewelry and you’d like to personalize them, it may be a good idea to use their name instead of “bridesmaid.”
An itinerary and list of “duties.” Leave the organization of pre-wedding parties to them. Unless they’ve asked you to, scheduling things like the bachelorette party, dress shopping, and the bridal shower yourself is kind of a “bridezilla” move.
Extravagant gifts. Remember the movie “Bridesmaids?” Remember when Helen threw Lillian a bridal shower and gave everyone a puppy? Yeah, that was awkward.
Avoid giving your bridesmaids something bananas in their proposal gift boxes if you can’t afford it. A sincere token of your love and appreciation trumps giving expensive stuff out of a sense of obligation any day.
Now that we’ve given you some general info, let’s check out some bridesmaid proposal cards!
Share the Love
If you’re fortunate enough to have the kind of friends who’ll stand by you through thick and thin, you know how precious they are. They comfort you when things are bad, celebrate with you when things are great, keep your secrets, and hold your hair if you’ve had too much to drink.
So let’s raise a glass to our girls, shall we? Here’s to many, many years of embarrassing each other in public, making each other laugh until we cry, and braving life’s most important milestones together. Cheers!
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